How to Help Your Child Succeed at School

You can not estimate the academic ability you bring out in your child by being involved in his/her academic pursuits. For every minute you invest in actively participating in your child's academic work at home, you boost his chances of attaining higher grades. Besides, your participation promotes better self esteem, increased motivation, and better school attendance.

You must visit your child in school regularly. Establish and maintain rapport with your child's teachers. One benefit you derive is that you can monitor your child's school attendance.

In high school, I diverted part of my examination fees for personal use. I had to miss classes for some weeks (hanging out on the riverside and stadium) thinking about how to raise fund to make up the balance. My parents never found out because they did not visit during that period. So, you must create time to see your child in school.

When you go to school regularly, it helps your child see the connection between school and home. Also, he/she appreciates that school is an important part of the whole family life. Whenever you visit your child in school, he/she feels proud about it. You must realize that your child wants you to be a knowledgeable parent about his/her school progress.

To be actively involved in your child educational progress, here is your "to-do" list:

• Help your child establish an after-school routine that he/she can stick to.

• Provide a quite place of study with necessary furniture.

• Practice reading skills with your child. Read, and then listen to your child read.

• Talk to your child each day about homework and assignments; go through his/her work; see if it's complete; ask questions about it. But don't do your child's homework for him/her.

• Set academic goals that are appropriate for your child's age and maturity.

• Discuss the value of a good education with your child. Ask about his/her possible career options.

• Set limits on his/her TV watching and be firm about bed time.

• Teach by example that achievement comes from self-discipline and hard work.

• Inform your friends and family about your child's academic success. This boosts his/her self image and motivates him/her to work harder.

• Maintain a warm and supportive home.

The bottom line is you must work directly with your child in his/her learning activities at home. Your child's academic success is your success. Are you willing to help him/her succeed? Then, start today.